Hello Beautiful Soul,
I'm so glad you are here!
My name is Jess Taylor (my higher self's name is Aria Blue). I've been on this journey of finding my purpose for a long time.
6 years ago I discovered it and then went through a huge transformational period of my life. A time of healing myself and my wounds, recognizing and slowly eliminating my manifestation blocks, accepting and surrendering to my own divine power, understanding and connecting with my higher spiritual self "Aria Blue" and following her guidance.
None of this was easy for me. There were a lot of ups and downs. A lot of fear that I had to overcome and transform into peace. A lot of pain I had to transform into love. And a lot of shame I had to transform into forgiveness and letting go.
But I did it. I overcame so much of my trauma, healed it, transformed it, and channeled it into this amazing gift of healing I have. The healing of others and their pain, their fears, their limitations and their manifestation blocks.
Because we all have the ability to manifest our most amazing, bliss-filled, fundamentally transformed lives. We just have to have a system and a guide that allows us to fully immerse ourselves in the transformation without getting lost along the way.
I was my own guide...or more accurately dozens of life coaches, healers, gurus and my own higher self guided me to create a system that works not just for me but for all the other souls I've helped heal over the past 6 years.
When I say "healed" though, please understand this, I don't mean they are without problems, or all their dreams have come true, or there is no more growth ... no more obstacles. Of course, there are still problems for them and for me, of course, there are still obstacles to grow from and overcome, of course, they still have dreams to manifest (how boring would life be otherwise?).
We chose this human experience to grow and learn and heal and evolve...if we stopped needing to grow (heal, transform, achieve our dreams) we might as well leave this earth all together.
But what they and I have achieved is bliss in its own way. Free from constant anxiety or fear, freedom from constantly needing to prove their worth or needing reassurance from others, for some the bliss partner, for others, the freedom from working in a 9-5 job, for some financial abundance and freedom, friendships and connections they craved, and for others still the freedom to be themselves safely and securely even when others disapprove. And for many a combination of the above!
And for me ... almost all of these ... financial security that eluded me for decades (still working on total financial freedom and abundance - lots and lots of blocks from my childhood -- but oh so grateful for the financial security I finally manifested)!!!
The freedom from an anxiety disorder I suffered from for decades which often manifested in insomnia, irritability, and anger management issues!!!
Unconditional self-love and self-worth allowing me to be myself in most spaces (though I'm still working on being completely me in all spaces)!!!
The bliss dream partner I've craved for years who fits exactly every aspect of what I currently need and is willing to grow with me as I keep evolving!!!
A wonderful relationship with my growing teenage son who had to heal his own wounds and I worried for a long time that my own struggles had caused too much trauma for him to recover (but he has ... or is well on his way towards being happy and healed)!!!
The house of my dreams that I didn't think I could ever afford in a part of town that I didn't think I could ever afford !!!π
Losing over 80 pounds in the span of 5 months easily and effortlessly (though to be fair...I did manage to gain it all back after finding my partner and we just spent way too much time cuddling in front of the TV and eating out and way too little time exercising -- currently focusing on manifesting permanent weight loss π).
And so many other things over the last few years...though my manifestations have sped up and become 'bigger' in the last two years after healing the majority of my blocks!
But I still have dreams, I still have more to achieve and accomplish and I don't think I'll ever stop wanting 'more' and 'bigger' ... more money, a bigger impact, more connections, more fulfillment, more time with my loved ones and with my growing list of hobbies...oh, and more travel!!! More luxuries!!! More Freedom!!!!
And there's nothing wrong with that!!!! So many of my clients and myself included had to learn to shed and heal those limiting beliefs that say 'we shouldn't want more or really anything for ourselves'!!!
But the truth is we deserve everything we desire...always...forever...again and again. That is our soul's birthright.
If you want to heal your blocks, your wounds, your self-limiting beliefs and learn to unlock your connection to your higher self and your own inner guidance and divine power, and show yourself how easy it is to manifest all the things you desire and want...then explore my offers and see if something fits your needs. And if there isn't anything here, then email me and maybe I'm working on something or you inspire me to work on something that would suit your needs more.
I love you. I don't know you...but I love you ... because you are a soul in need of healing and it is my life's and my soul's purpose to help others heal. And through healing help you achieve your dreams ... for if all your wounds are healed (or the majority of them) then all your blocks are healed ... and nothing stands in the way of you manifesting all your desires anymore!
Jess Taylor is not a licensed mental health professional and operates as a life coach. She has the training of a 5th-year Clinical Psychology PhD student but she never graduated and was not eligible to get her license. Please read the "legal stuff' for more information.
How I can Help You Manifest your Dream Life...
1:1 Soul Healing Sessions (60 Minutes)
πIn these 1:1 Sessions I will use my connection to my Higher Self to feel into how to best help you reach your desired state of being. Often that means showing you the path towards loving yourself, teaching you how to calm down your survival brain, creating affirmations tailored to your brain to rewire your subconscious and guiding you through channeled healing and manifestation meditations personalized to to your soul to permanently re-pattern your energetics and eliminate your blocks.
The more you implement the process I teach, the faster you will heal and manifest your desires ... therefore the number of sessions you need to get where you want to go is entirely up to you and how much trauma we need to heal.
The Little Healing & Manifestation Course
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The Ultimate Online Course: Heal Your Subconscious Blocks & Manifest Your Dream Reality!
The Step-By-Step Process for Trauma Brains, Overthinkers, Anxious Souls and all those who just can't seem to relax enough to manifest their dreams!
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I developed and created Soul Healing because I want to reach as many anxious, overthinking, perfectionistic trauma brains as I can. I want to help them rewire their brains from fight-or-flight to that same sense of calm and inner peace that I finally found...and help them manifest their dreams.
Because trauma brains deserve the same happiness as everyone else.
More Testimonials...
Podcasts I 'guested' on:
When Manifestation Just Doesn't Seem to WORK!!!
In this episode of the Pa-Trauma Party Remy Ramirez talks to Intuitive Healer Jess Taylor about the Trauma of Manifestation Culture.
"From affirmations to visualizations to gratitude lists, manifestation culture (*cough, The Secret, cough cough*), has been making anxious and traumatized people feel like doomed spiritual invalids for A MINUTE. In this epi, I talk with intuitive healer and manifestation coach Jess Taylor (soulhealingwithjess.com) about manifestation for people who try to visualize a flowing stream but end up visualizing a car crash instead (weeeee!!!)."
-Remy Ramirez
The Trauma of Emotional Neglect and How to Heal It!
In this episode of the Pa-Trauma Party Remy Ramirez talks to Intuitive Healer Jess Taylor about the Trauma of Emotional Neglect.
"Emotional neglect! Just rolls off the tongue. It's a fun form of trauma that doesn't get the fanfare it deserves (all y'all out there searching CPTSD and anxious attachment style while emotional neglect is just over here alone in the corner ). But honestlyβit's a tough topic to talk about because it's the absence of a thing. It's what didn't happen. And so it often goes unnoticed and unhealed, when actually the effects of emotional neglect go SUPER deep and show up all over our lives. In this episode, I welcome back intuitive healer and coach Jess Taylor to talk us through what it looks like, how it impacts our relationships, and how we heal."
-Remy Ramirez
Healing the Trauma of Unsafety! (And why it's vital for manifestation to work)
In this episode of the Pa-Trauma Party Remy Ramirez talks to Intuitive Healer Jess Taylor about the Trauma of Feeling Unsafe and How to Heal it!
"Feeling unsafe from childhood, feeling unsafe in your body, feeling unsafe in your countryβit's all fucked, and it can affect every single aspect of your adult life. In this episode, I'm joined by intuitive healer and coach Jess Taylor
to talk about the root of feeling unsafe and what we can do to shift it."
-Remy Ramirez
What is the Soul Healing Therapy System ?
Foundational Framework
Tribal Theory of Emotion: Love as a Measure of Safety
by Jess Taylor (Copyright 2020)
Disclaimer: Yes, I developed a therapy system - No, I'm not a licensed therapist.
You don't have to be...you just have to be honest about it when you help people with it.
Our brains evolved to survive through belonging to a Tribe. That means our brains developed highly sensitive systems to perceive when our belonging was threatened. That's why we are so sensitive to rejection and, by extension, criticism. Because it meant death if we got expelled from the Tribe.
Your brain is CONSTANTLY fighting for survival by desperately trying to predict and avoid potential rejection (and expulsion) from the Tribe. It doesn't matter that there is no Tribe that holds the power over your life and death. Your brain is still the brain from the stone age. It hasn't caught up to the modern world (unfortunately, there may be parts of the world where being kicked out of the Tribe/Family could still mean death or at least extreme poverty.)
If this Tribal Survival Brain of yours grew up in a Tribe where it experienced rejection, criticism, aggression, violence, disapproval, disdain, contempt, shaming, guilting, brow-beating, cold-shouldering, withholding of love/care, blaming and making responsible for other people's feelings, helplessness, loneliness, abandonment, neglect, sexual abuse....IT NEVER LEARNED TO FEEL SAFE.
Our brain measures how safe we are (belonging to the tribe) by how loved we feel. And when it's never felt SAFE because the love it received was unpredictable or was conditional or completely absent, it developed survival strategies to make it stay in the tribe such as: perfectionism, self-blame, people-pleasing, argumentativeness, self-reliance, isolation, high-achievingness and all sorts of other ways to try and control, predict and avoid 'rejection' in all its forms. (Everything we are afraid of in our daily, fairly ordinary lives comes down to the fear of rejection.)
There are, of course, real life-threatening dangers our survival brain is also justifiably afraid of ... and it ties in very well with the social/tribal aspect of survival. In the tribe our chances of surviving an attack by a lion, a natural disaster, a disease, are by and large better than if we were alone.
Therefore, developing perfectionism and being highly self-critical are VERY common ways the survival brains tries to ensure our belonging to the tribe.
Here's how it thinks:
I'm not safe because the love I've received is conditional or unpredictable and there's a lot of criticism of my behaviors (or the behaviors of others) which teaches me that it's not safe to engage in these behaviors. I need to figure out how to make sure that I'm as loved/liked/accepted as possible in this tribe, and therefore, I need to try and fit into the categories of behaviors/personality traits that get the most praise and/or the least amount of criticism. AND I need to be perfect in those categories and if I'm not perfect than I need to try harder because the only person that is to blame if I'm criticized/rejected/ignored is me, for not trying hard enough.
For example: Child is chastised for being loud and making noise. "Good girls don't make this much of a racket. Be quiet, please." (This happens consistently or there's one very impactful memory of this happening) Child learns that being quiet and not making noise, i.e., suppressing their desires and not expressing their joy is what gets them praise and less criticism. Their brain gets the message that this is safer. It's safer to not be themselves than it is to be themselves. Then, if they make noise, speak loudly, express their joy freely ... i.e., laughing loudly...they get chastised again. Their brain then blames them for making noise. Their brain re-affirms the wiring that says IT is MY fault for being chastised and endangering my belonging to this tribe and therefore my survival. I need to do better.
The truth is...our brain doesn't even entertain the idea (or not for very long) that it is actually the other person (usually parent) who is ARBITRARILY deciding that making noise is wrong. Thus their dislike of loud noises (which is entirely based on their own histories, experiences, and biases) becomes a deeply, illogical, irrational ingrained trauma belief that runs our lives making it almost impossible to be authentic around others for fear of laughing too loudly. And this then also overlaps into fear of speaking your truth, fear of saying what you want, believing that your needs matter less than other people's needs.
And these survival coping strategies that our brain developed as a child to try and stay in the tribe ultimately are what hold us back from living our lives and from manifesting our dreams.
The easiest and safest way to rewire these beliefs is by using self-love as a base. Because if you can make your survival brain feel loved, it feels safe. Even if it is your own love it feels. And when your inner children feel unconditionally loved and therefore safe, they, too start to let go of their stubborn trauma beliefs and survival coping strategies.
This is the essence of my therapy system and what Soul Healing is all about. I help you heal your inner children and find unconditional self-love and thereby rewiring your trauma beliefs and eliminating your manifestation blocks. I do this through relying on a well-thought-out system that guides you step-by-step through this process guided by my Higher Self Aria Blue to tailor this system and this process to your unique soul.
And to top if all off, I also share many different methodologies for manifestation and create a personalized system of manifestation that works with your unique strengths and abilities to help you manifest your best life.
How I help create self-love for even the most stubborn brains!
The Techniques
1. Calming Down the Survival Brain: Validation Affirmations
But to get to that feeling of self-love, we have to first CALM DOWN your survival brainβs defenses. And we do this NOT by fighting with it or arguing with it, but by making it feel heard and seen and validated β¦ just like we would with a small child. (And, of course, in reality, your inner children LIVE inside your survival brainβs deeper levels β¦ inside your subconscious.)
We canβt make it feel safe yet β¦ but the next best thing is to make it (and by extension all your inner children and traumatic memories) feel seen and heard.
Think of your survival brainβs self-blaming, worrying, perfectionistic thoughts as MESSAGES of survival. And itβs sending them to you. To your consciousness. And when you argue with the message, when you dismiss the message, when you say that you shouldnβt feel this way or that everything will be okay β¦ it will only get louder. It wants to be heard and seen. MORE SO, than it wants you to actually solve anything. And that is the TRICK that I learned that is not taught in any psychology program, that no therapist is taught, or guru or coach. All your brain needs to start calming down is to feel understood.
Now, these affirmations are unique to everyoneβs brain, experiences, and personality. Thatβs a big part of what I do in my 1:1 Therapy β¦ I help you write your own Self-Validation Affirmations. Ones that resonate with your brain. Ones that actually calm down your nervous system. They have to FEEL GOOD or we rewrite them until they do. I cannot give you cookie-cutter affirmations. Everyoneβs self-validation affirmations are slightly different, because everyone associates different things with different words.
But here are some examples that work for me: Of course, Iβm afraid. It makes sense that I am given everything Iβve been through. Of course, I feel guilty all the time β¦ for everything. It makes sense that I do given a childhood of neglect and abuse. Of course, I have a hard time saying no. Of course, Iβm afraid of disappointing and upsetting others. It makes sense that I feel this way given the abuse and neglect of my childhood. Some of these affirmations donβt resonate with me as much anymore. Thatβs because I healed a lot of the underlying traumas and had to upgrade my affirmations.
2. Rewiring the Survival Brain: Worthiness Affirmations
THE next step is to create Worthiness Affirmations. These are affirmations that start to rewrite the survival brainβs foundation and is us getting as close to our subconscious as we can using our conscious mind. These Affirmations start with wherever you are at.
Hereβs what I mean:
Most of the typical affirmations that are recommended are things like βI love myselfβ, βI am beautiful and capableβ, βI attract success and wealth into my lifeβ
But those never worked for me because my survival brainβs deeper layers filled with trauma-based beliefs are completely contradictory to those affirmations. And all that would happen when I said them would be an instant resistance or just a hollow feeling.
Instead I wrote affirmations that my survival brain allowed 'through' (didn't evoke any resistance).
For example:
"I am worthy and deserving of feeling worthy and deserving even if I can't feel it yet."
"It gets to be safe to feel worthy and deserving - even if I don't feel safe yet."
"I am worthy and deserving just because I breathe."
"I give myself permission to start feeling worthy and deserving of receiving money, love, and success"
These are just some very limited examples of what these affirmations can look like. They are tailored to the individual person and where they are at. And they change, or upgrade, as you rewire more and more of your old programming.
3. Rewriting the Subconcious Mind: Creating Self-Love & Healing the Traumas
Then then it's time to create the emotion of LOVE for yourself and rewrite the trauma memories of your inner children and rewire your subconscious mind. And we do this by creating hypnosis-based visual spirit journeys. These are journeys that are guided by my higher self Aria Blue and this is where I lead you to the beginning of your life and we start a relationship with your infant self. Through this relationship and through these journeys you will begin to feel true and unconditional love for yourself. (The substance your soul is made from and your direct connection to your higher self.)
Sometimes the self-love comes through fast and you feel it very quickly, sometimes it takes multiple sessions before the self-love starts to come through. When the self-love comes through, we use it to travel from memory to memory, rewriting them, empowering the child, making them feel safe, worthy, protected, and loved.
And we continue to do this for all the core memories inside your subconscious WHILE you are also upgrading to better and better worthiness affirmations.
4. Creating Personalized Manifestation Affirmations and Visualizations
Once we've done a good bit of the healing work, it's time to create manifestation affirmations and visualizations to help you start manifesting what you desire.
As you step into manifestation you will always also run into blocks that pop up and that you then need to heal ... this is actually the only way this process works...you heal, you manifest, you experience contrast and things not working out, you analyze them, you identify the trauma beliefs that blocked your manifestation, and you heal them...and then you try again and never ever stop or give up...over time you start to notice that you are manifesting more and more and more of what you want.
Now, be warned, a lot of times the things we find the hardest to manifest also have the most trauma-beliefs associated with them. For me, that was money and success. I had a much easier time manifesting friendships, weight loss, romantic relationships than I had money and success.
Soo much of that was tied in with trauma beliefs that said
I don't get to have what I want (because as a child no matter how much I wanted or needed things, I wouldn't get them)
Everything I want comes with a high price (because as a child my dearest deepest desires always came with loss and abandonment)
My wants and needs don't matter (because as a child they didn't ... at least not in any ways I was could understand)
I'm a burden and an annoyance and no one would ever want or need my services/gifts (because the message I got over and over again as a child was that I was "too much" ... too loud, too needy, too expressive, too sensitive)
It was easier to manifest friendships and romantic relationships because I had learned that I had to just be inauthentic and pleasing and there are "kinds" of people that would want to spend time with me. These relationships never felt good. Over time, I healed a lot of the relationship-specific traumas and was able to manifest better and better relationships.
Money and success (when I talk about success I mean success in something that I love doing ... like Soul Healing) were harder for me because I didn't believe I had anything to offer at all...and that other people always had better and more to offer. I felt like i had to persuade people to buy from me and that no one in their right mind would pick my gifts over someone else. Who was I? No one. I hadn't even finished my education all the way. I wasn't even licensed.
So once I healed a lot of trauma beliefs around this, I would still continuously bump into more blocks ...even as I was making money and getting clients ... I would find another and then another block. And I'm still working on some as I'm typing this up. Because these are very deep-seated beliefs that have a lot of memories attached to them.
However, let me assure you, that I have manifested more and more money the more I healed. I manifested more success the more I healed. I manifested more financial security and freedom the more I healed.
I definitely manifested my perfect partner as well...but that felt easier...not easy...but a little easier. :) I've had good relationships before and I know I have things to offer in a relationship. This beautiful relationship I'm in now, though, is teaching me that I don't need to offer anything, I just need to be myself and say out loud what it is that I want and need ... and that it's safe to do so. (He's amazing. Exactly what I ordered from the universe.)
I wrote all this and still haven't told you what these manifestation affirmations look like, have I?
That's because the exact words don't matter. The exact technique doesn't matter.
Manifestation is about "feeling as if you have what you want".
So any technique that gets you into that feeling is the right one.
The Manifestation Affirmations we created are more about making it feels safe to receive what you want and making you feel worthy and deserving of receiving what you want.
"It is safe to receive money."
"It is safe to feel worthy of receiving money."
"It gets to be safe to receive and keep money."
"It is safe to be loved unconditionally."
"It is safe to succeed in the eyes of others."
"I am worthy and deserving of receiving and keeping unconditional love"
The Manifestation Celebration Meditation:
This really is something that I lead you through. Guided by Aria Blue we go on a journey into your near future and we immerse ourselves into the reality that you want to create until it feels juicy, real, succulent...so real you can taste it.
Or you can listen to the recorded ones I've created and create the juicy, real feelings yourself.
The point is...manifestation is creating the feeling of having what you want. That IS the frequency.
The Results
Over the years, I have helped many people go from people-pleasing, perfectionistic, overthinking, self-blaming, worried brains to calm, collected, peaceful souls that are starting to or are already living the lives they've always wanted to live. For some of them manifestation has become as easy as breathing...and for some they are chomping at the bit getting ready to be brave enough to manifest their dreams. (Aligned action is a thing :))
Your Coach
Jess Taylor, M.A.
Soul Healer
Manifestation Teacher
Jess Taylor has developed her own system of therapy combining evolutionary, neuroscientific and spiritual principles to permanently create self-love, heal manifestation blocking memories, rewire trauma beliefs and create magnetic energetics in a person's energy field.
The Legal Stuff >>> Please READ
Jess Taylor is not a licensed mental health professional. By registering for the course, workshop, challenge, session or therapy program you agree to assume full responsibility for your mental health and seek professional mental health care if needed or suggested by Jess Taylor. You further agree to indemnify, defend, and hold harmless Jess Taylor and Soul Healing with Jess, its officers, directors, shareholders, employees, representatives and/or agents from any claim, liability, loss, cost, damage, judgment, settlement or expense (including attorney's fees) resulting from or arising in any way out of injury (including death or suicide) to any person or damage to property arising in any way out of any act, error, omission or negligence on the part of Jess Taylor and/or Soul Healing with Jess in the performance or failure to fulfill the above services or obligations.
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